Sunday, May 6, 2007

Sunday in Antigua

We returned to the Hotel Antigua for brunch and a day at the pool. Many other adoptive families were there and the food was excellent. Although knowing that one is going to swim right after brunch is a good deterrent from eating too much. I got smart and bought a second float, one for Rachael also, since sharing is sometimes an issue :). Both girls had a blast and Rachael made some new friends her age who have been here with their families for almost a year waiting for their children. Maria, I think, has tried to tell us that she prefers to be called "Alejandra". Tonight she kept repeating, un prompted, Alejandra Kowalchick!! Today was better with less meltdowns. I think our understanding of each other is improving. I am intently trying to pick up on her spanish and speak both spanish and english to her. She is doing better in the pool. Only one incident of near drowning, not really do to her lack of awareness but still we have to watch her like a hawk. I am so thankful that Rachael is a good swimmer and can be on her own!! Atleast, Alejandra is holding her breath now instead of drinking most of the water!! We were hoping to catch a Tuk Tuk home but no luck. So it was quite a walk with two tired girls. I am trying to talk Grant into staying through the week but we will see. I think it would help because we are making a lot of progress with her transition and I am so afraid we will take 4 steps backward if he leaves Tuesday morning. Thanks for all of the emails from home, it is great hearing from everyone when the internet is up!!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Janet, Grant, Rachael and Alejandra, I am so very very happy for you all. Your family will grow and grow in happiness and love, which you all are oh os good at providing. I am looking forward to meeting your new Kowalchick. Grant, have you taught her yet to "voice" her opinions and joy as you do? And Rachael, have you taught her your mad ballet/karate skills yet?
Well take care my special friends. Looking forward to reuniting....
Love, Ann

The Moores said...

Hello Kowalchicks,
What a wonderful day it sounds like you had! I am so glad you are meeting other families and that both girls are getting exposed to so many people and other kids. I am thrilled you feel more connected to Alejandra every day. It won't be much longer and the language barrier will become smaller and smaller. After all, she feels all the love the 3 of you have for her she will soon understand you better.

And I already have a soft spot for that little girl.....after all, since my dad's name was Alejandro I must applaud her on wanting to be called Alejandra instead!:) Smart cookie!!

Love the updates and we are thinking of you!
Rozel, DAve and the kids

Unknown said...

Congratulations! I'm so happy for you guys. I can't wait for you guys to get home so I can meet the beautiful new addition to your family. Let me know if you need anything when you get home to help make your transition smoother.

Lori Cracraft